
That's where marketing your site comes in and social marketing is the hottest trend today. It is based on relationships with your customers, but on a very large scale. It works only when you do it correctly and consistently.
Here are some of the rules:
Again, be consistent. Don't read this book, get all motivated and send out a dozen Tweets today, tomorrow but peter out so that by next week you've forgotten all about it. Determine a sustainable commitment of time and remember that the more successful your marketing makes you, the less time you will have to continue it.
Listen. Selling yourself is a one-way conversation and really quite boring. Think of this as a customer walking into your offline store and before they can ask a question, you shove the nearest product into their hands and send them toward the cashier. What makes you think that's what they want? Did you ask? Or did you just tell them? Interact with them to determine what they're looking for, whether your product or service fits or whether the best service you can give them is to direct them to your competition. You may lose this sale, but the goodwill and respect for your knowledge can gain a long-term customer down the road. Besides, if you're not offering the product or service the consumer is buying, wouldn't you like to know it?
Know your product or service thoroughly. Which of the following has the greater value to a customer: a) You should buy the ABC television because I'm offering it at a sale price or b) You should buy the ABC television because it will allow you to plug your computer in through the HDMI access and stream any available content from the Internet directly through the TV's monitor. This will save you buying a separate monitor and let you relax on the sofa while surfing or watching Netflix. This second reason is certainly more compelling because your customer sees multiple applications for the investment and your pricing is probably already very competitive so it's worth checking out. People know all about price, but they don't all know whether you can use a particular television as a monitor, so they need to rely on someone's expertise and this is where you come in.
Stay current with information. The Internet is all about information and if you surfed 24/7/365 you could not keep up with all that is published. So, as an expert, take it upon yourself to filter through the important information that pertains to your product or service and share this information with your social customers. They trust you, they trust your product, they buy your product – see where this goes?
Keep it pertinent. If you're tweeting under your business brand, customers don't care whether you had a date last night or whether your football team won. People only care about what they want or are interested in. They're reading your posts because they're getting something from it, not you.
Be authentic. This also means authenticity in your brand. If you're selling website design and you're 50-something, don't try to morph yourself into what you aren't just to please someone or try to hide who you are. People will pick up on it and nothing you say will "ring true." If you're 50-something, then use that as a selling point for your brand. Call yourself "Webmother" or use a tag phrase like "Site design with a mother's touch." Play it up! Be who you really are. After all, that's what separates you from the corporate faces and others who may be in your same situation will IDENTIFY with you building more trust within your relationship.
Give them something to remember. If a customer clicks through to your site, make sure you have enough content and value there that they come back. If your bounce rate is the highest number in your web stats, you are doing something wrong. This is about creating community and it is pretty hard to do that when everyone leaves as soon as they hit the door.
Lead them by the hand. If you invited them to take a look at the televisions you're selling, when they arrive at the site, the first thing they should see is the image, the price and the buy button. Imagine reading a catalog where you had to sift through pages of product description before you were permitted to see what the item looked like or how much it cost. Consider having tailored landing pages. If price is your competitive edge, build one that puts the price out there in huge numbers above the fold. If you are hawking your guarantee, build another landing page for the same product that has a neon seal with your guarantee right at the top of the page. People expect a link to connect related content; they don't like to follow a link only to discover they've been dragged in under false pretenses. They'll leave. Wouldn't you?
Build that relationship. Pretend that you are living across the street from every customer you meet. Be accountable, be consistent, be honest and be helpful.

Kim Garst has been a Mompreneur for almost 20 years and has built a 7 figure income from her home. Currently she shares her business and marketing savvy through coaching and consulting with clients around the world. Kim specializes in helping you get more sales, more leads and more clients utilizing social media and the Internet as a whole. Her systems are easy to implement and get quick results for small businesses as well as new and established solopreneurs.
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Great tips Kim! Consistency is something that I struggle with — but I love your idea of committing to the time it is going to take. You're right, having a full day of tweets only to fall completely out of sight the next day is useless!
Set aside a time of day (morning?) when you can get some social media updates scheduled for the day. If you can pop in later for spontaneous conversations with friends, great. If not, at least you know that you're still present in some form!
A very good article but I feel I need to comment on the part about keeping it pertinent. I am all for the walls of formality being broken down, obviously within reason, but don't you think you can reach more potentials, and for more relationships if you waver the conversation away from work? I'm thinking exclusively Twitter here – obviously you wouldn't blog personal things!
Matt, I think it depends on your audience. I have built a targeted following of biz owners specifically with a few others thrown in but most of my followers are looking for valuable content that will help them with their businesses.
Kim, Another great post filled with helpful advice. Thanks for sharing so generously with all of us.
Thank you Kim for great tips and for guiding us to be the very best we can be for our customers, students and friends, too. You are right about knowing your product or service, nothing is worse than coming for guidance only to be lead astray.
Kim,
Great post. Lots of good tips for those of us who are new to social media.
Kim, aloha. Solid content on what people need to do to drive traffic to their "field of dreams." Far too often, people think that bells, whistles and major SEO is what attracts people. Not so.
Like in the offline world, word of mouth is still the most effective form of advertising/marketing. Word of mouth occurs when we do something that brings value to others and thus they start spreading the word about our product/service/company. Online happens much faster as that word of mouth becomes world of mouth.
Business is about relationship building–online or offline. Good business practices and applying the Golden Rule will deliver the results the online marketer seeks.
Thx so much for the well laid out plan. Aloha. Janet
Hi Kim,
I am so glad that we connected through Twitter. I am enjoying your blog and what I have learned from you so far. It seems you have gotten a handle on the social media but you are also a normal down to earth person that I can relate to as well. You brightened my day today.
Ann
Great post, but I'm from Iowa, where we strongly believe that if you build it, they will come.
Great minds thinking alike? This applies to blogging efforts as well! http://www.bigbadbulldog.com/blog/bid/149221/If-you-post-it-they-will-come-Why-nobody-reads-your-blog
Thanks Kim! Great advice. I love this: "Pretend that you are living across the street from every customer you meet." Priceless!