Tips for Learning How to Do Social Media: Gentlemen, Start Your Engines

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Learning how to do social media can get confusing. Facebook. Twitter. Instagram. LinkedIn. And now you want me to learn Google+ in my spare time?

If you get overwhelmed just thinking about adding yet another social media platform to your overloaded schedule, let’s look at what happens when we learn something new.

There are four levels of learning:

1.    We’re not aware that we don’t know something.

2.    We’re uncomfortably aware of what is difficult for us to do.

3.    We’re able to do the thing, but we’re still doing it the hard way, mustering up willpower and conscious effort.

4.    We reach a point where what was difficult to do becomes automatic and easy.

Think about learning to drive a car. When we were fourteen years old we probably thought that driving looked easy and we couldn’t wait to get our learner’s permit. We had no idea how much we had to learn, much like opening a Twitter account and posting our first tweet.

Then we got behind the wheel of the car. Oh, you mean you have to step on the brake to put it in reverse? How can I keep my eyes on the road if I have to keep checking my mirrors? In the same way, realizing that it matters what time we post and that Facebook cover photos have rules can get overwhelming. It’s tempting to quit and think that we’ll never learn all of this stuff.

Next we reached some level of competency with driving a vehicle. We knew how to start the thing and get it out of the driveway, but there was still the matter of driving on the interstate and driving through rain—at night. We still got nervous in heavy traffic. Likewise, we reach a point of some skill with the logistics of uploading photos and posting comments but then it dawns on us that we have to constantly find or create content and plan the balance between types of posts. We can get the job done but it still seems hard.

Finally, we became a good driver. We checked mirrors and drove in the rain without thinking about it. We felt in control and competent as a driver.

And it’s possible to reach that point in learning how to do Social Media, whether you’re just getting started or you need to learn a new platform.

Here are some ways to develop “automatic and fairly easy” in your Social Media skill:

·         Get good training. You’re in the right place.

·         Set up systems. This will probably involve checklists and automated posting tools. 

·         Just do it. Over and over. 

·         Constantly work on your own personal development. Your attitude will show up in your posts and marketing.

·         Have the best philosophy. It’s about connection and relationships with people, not about your next product launch.

·         And did I mention doing it over and over?

Nobody likes doing what they’re not good at.  But the way to get good is to do it repeatedly.

Sure, there’s a learning curve. Yes, they keeping changing things and adding new platforms.

But sitting in the driveway complaining about the next new thing will get you nowhere. Take it slow if you must, but do something. Commit to spending a set time every day on learning and taking action. Choose a Social Media platform to concentrate on for a few weeks, then move on to the next one.

Keep your perspective positive and remember that we develop skill by doing tasks over and over.

Put yourself in the driver’s seat and start your Social Media Driver’s Ed for whatever platform seems mysterious. Before you know it, you’ll be cruising. The time is going to pass anyway and if you get started now you’ll be way down the road instead of wishing you hadn’t stayed in neutral gear. Enjoy the trip!


Charlotte SiemsCharlotte Siems is a happy wife, mom, Master T-Tapp Trainer, speaker and author.  Her story of losing over 100 pounds with T-Tapp has encouraged thousands of people all over the world.  She specializes in making home management and fitness “doable” for real people.  She is the homeschooling mother of twelve children, five of whom are still living at home in Oklahoma, and "Minky" to four grandchildren. Charlotte writes about family life and T-Tapp at



  1. says

    LOVE what you said about the fact that the use and the power of social media is through connecting with people and forming relationships. It is all about posting interesting and valuable content that keeps your audience engaged and interested–not just "your next product launch". The focus must always keep your target audience in mind.
    Great post!

  2. sanchit says

    Hello Charlotte,
    Really a nice blog for learning social media.
    The steps and the process you share here are good and your way to express and explain ais also effective.
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  3. says

    You are so right Charlotte!  Doing is the only way to learn and become proficient at something. To use your analogy, sometimes I feel like with social media this month we have to learn how to drive a car, next month an 18 wheeler, the next month an RV…oh, and we have to know how to fix them too!   I am in awe of those among us that 'get it' and I feel like I'm the one still using a bicycle to get around.  

  4. says

    With all the different social media platforms available, it can be confusing to get to grips with each one. Your points are excellent and can help a beginner get to grips with everything 

  5. says

    Thanks for sharing such "doable" and practical advice. I especially like your philosophy that it is about your connections and relationships, not your next product launch. I look forward to reading more of your posts. 

  6. says

    All true points. Love the analogy with the car and driving, it is so true.SM was brand new to me and it was not an easy task to master though I made it worse in my own mind. I stuck it through and yes, with repeated actions, it has become second nature.

  7. says

    My best philosophy in Social Media is the Golden Rule: “Do to others what you want them do to you.” It means that if you are trustworthy, people will trust you in return. If not, then don’t expect something good. That’s relationship building is the key in social media interactions.

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