5 Quick and Simple Ways To Communicate Better

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Do you ever feel like you’re the worst communicator in the room? Do you stumble over your words, struggle to get out your thoughts, or frequently feel awkward when engaged in social or business interactions? If so, you’re not alone. Becoming a better communicator isn’t rocket science, but does require that you pay attention to some basic tenets of respectful communication.

5 quick and simple ways to communicate better:

1. Never Talk Over Others

Particularly if you’re an extrovert, it can be tempting to share your thoughts before your conversation partner is actually done talking. It can feel like your idea or thought is so critical to the conversation that it just can’t wait. Unfortunately, talking over others can come across as disrespectful or even downright rude. We learn it in kindergarten, but it’s always good to be reminded: don’t interrupt and always wait your turn.

2. Don't Finish Other’s Sentences

When you’re engaged in a particularly exciting or enthralling conversation, it’s easy to jump in and complete other people’s sentences. If you’re frequently guilty of this, it may not be entirely your fault: research shows that our brains are wired to nearly constantly predict what others are going to say. But while it may come naturally, jumping in and finishing someone else’s sentences is more akin to interrupting than actually helping them express themselves. Resist the urge to fill in the blanks and wait to hear what others are actually going to say.

3. Get to the Point

Have you ever been talking to someone for 10, 20 or even 30 minutes, and realized that you’ve hardly been able to get a word in? People who ramble aimlessly, offering irrelevant details and stories will never win awards for their communication skills. Particularly in professional settings, stay on point and be concise. Share the most important facts or details first; then if there’s time left over, you can spend some time chitchatting without having your conversation partner feel locked in.


Sounds so obvious, right? You probably know the old saying, “God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason”. Yet many of us still lack basic listening skills. Becoming a good listener involves learning a number of key behaviors:

  • Using open body language (i.e. no crossed arms)
  • Actually listening rather than thinking about what you’re going to say next
  • Keeping an open mind, and focusing on and visualizing what the other person is saying
  • Asking clarifying questions where appropriate

5. Maintain Eye Contact

Have you ever been talking to someone whose eyes are constantly roaming around the room? It’s not a good feeling, and can convey a sense of disinterest or boredom. Much of our communication is nonverbal, and one of the most important methods of nonverbal communicate is eye contact. Be sure to focus on your conversation partner, maintaining an appropriate level of eye contact. Put aside distractions like your phone or computer, and give them the same level of attention you would expect from them.

Final Thoughts

Anyone can become a better communicator by implementing the 5 strategies above. Being an active listener, monitoring your body language and resisting the urge to interrupt are all basic communication skills, but ones that are easy to forget. Instead of worrying about how you come across in social or professional settings, shift your focus onto those around you. When in doubt, ask yourself, “How do others feel when they’re with me?”. If people feel respected, valued and heard, your communication skills are probably just fine.

What would you add to this list? Share in the comments below!

*I’m compensated by University of Phoenix for this blog and, as always, all thoughts and opinions are my own.

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